Do you have a good friend with u right now?
If u do, wad does a good friend means to u?
to me.. it means mutual trust, understanding and communciation.. these are the 3 key factors in contributing to building up a long lasting friendship. As a friend to others, we must have all 3 factors in built so that we can cater to ur friend's needs and wants and their feelings especially and the same way they treated us back.
Sometimes, it just happens one party failed to communicate him or herself effectively and clearly to another thus resulting in a misunderstanding. Do not give up in finding a new way to communciate to clear the misunderstanding as it will just become deeper and deeper.. Being real good friends doesnt means being a noble person by keeping all things to yourself.. nobody will appreciate ur nobleness, no noble awards will be presented to u, instead alot of bad comments will be thrown on u.. U have to thrash everything out clearly. Real friends will understand your plight..
Next, I strongly believed Good friendship are not afraid of troubles, bad comments! As there is a chinese saying "Real gold are not afraid of fire burning" which in turns means good friendship can be put to test!
And, dun always place the entire fault at yourself or to others, as there is always a Karma (a cause and effect about everything we do).. So think about it!
If reallie, u came to no choice, no resolution, we should just be glad that this particular person did came into our lives, leaving behind a wonderful experience and when he or she happens to left us oneday, dont be too sad about it, as the experience is enough to substain!
Good friends all! love ya alL!
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